{"id":13796,"date":"2018-09-15T03:25:01","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T20:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/?p=13796"},"modified":"2018-09-15T03:25:01","modified_gmt":"2018-09-14T20:25:01","slug":"hoc-nghe-thuat-thuyet-phuc-tu-dao-dien-phim-crazy-rich-asians","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/hoc-nghe-thuat-thuyet-phuc-tu-dao-dien-phim-crazy-rich-asians\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning the art of persuasion from the director of \u201cCrazy Rich Asians\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

The letter from the director of \u201cCrazy Rich Asians\u201d to Coldplay demonstrates a distinctive art of persuasion.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Learn<\/span><\/p>\n

Have you ever really, really wanted something, only for the person with the power to give it to you to say no?<\/span><\/p>\n

That is the situation Asian American director Jon M. Chu faced. Chu found a song perfectly suited to the ending of his new film\u2014\u00a0Crazy Rich Asians<\/em>\u00a0(Children of Asia's super-rich<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 the first film in 25 years from a Hollywood studio with an all-Asian cast). That song is\u00a0Yellow<\/em>, performed by rock band Coldplay, according to\u00a0Inc.<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n

In an interview with\u00a0Quartz,<\/em>\u00a0Chu said his colleagues initially feared the song would evoke negative stereotypes. They said, \u201cOh, we cannot do this. What do you think people will say?\u201d But Chu persuaded them: \u201cTrust me on this,\u201d and they agreed to let him handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n

But His Biggest Problem Was That Coldplay Refused Chu\u2019s Request to Use the Song\u00a0Yellow<\/em>\u00a0for the film.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You can imagine Chu feeling disappointed and letting his emotions take over. He might tell his colleagues: \u201cForget what I said. That song isn't all that great.\u201d Or he might try to use his Hollywood connections to somehow persuade Coldplay.<\/span><\/p>\n

But Chu demonstrated remarkable persuasion by using emotional intelligence. He took time to gather and control his emotions instead of letting them control him. Then he turned those emotions into a powerful story, sharing the song\u2019s profound impact on him.<\/span><\/p>\n

He shared these feelings in a letter sent directly to Coldplay.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018I know this sounds rather strange, but throughout my life I have had a complicated relationship with the color yellow. From having the word hurled at me as an insult at school to watching films in which many people were called \u201cyellow cowards,\u201d yellow carried a negative meaning throughout my life. Then I heard your song\u2026 For the first time in my life, yellow was described in the most beautiful and wondrous ways I had ever heard: the color of the stars, the color of the girl's skin, the color of her love. It was an extraordinarily compelling and passionate image that made me reconsider my own self-image\u2026\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

An hour after the letter was sent, Coldplay replied to director Chu, agreeing to let him use the song\u00a0Yellow\u00a0<\/em>for the film\u00a0Crazy Rich Asians<\/em>, according to\u00a0Quartz.<\/em>\u00a0The song was then featured at the film's climax, performed in Mandarin by singer Katherine Ho.<\/span><\/p>\n

The lesson in persuasion here is this: the next time you face disappointment because someone has the power to deny you what you want, pause to gather your emotions. Then try to channel those emotions into a positive force.<\/span><\/p>\n

This process not only helps you get what you want but also understand much more about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Collected.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n phim “Crazy Rich Asians” g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00f3m nh\u1ea1c Coldplay th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n trao cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13797,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[134],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13796"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13798,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13796\/revisions\/13798"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yup.edu.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}